Change

Sometimes in life there are sudden changes that you are just not ready to go through.

ovies make it seem so easy. But is it?

I don’t think so. Braking up with a boyfriends sucks,even though you are the one who wanted to separate. Losing a loved one is really hard and yet movies make it seem not so much. Get for example, “The Vampire Diaries”. Elena loses her parents and she grieves but not as much as a normal person would and then again it’s a TV drama.

What do they teach us, that change is a good thing? I am a positive person and I believe for the most part that change is a good thing but sometimes it doesn’t seem that way, at least in the beginning. Moving on is not easy as well but sometimes it’s the last thing that’s left for us to do. Sometimes life changes so much and you want to go back but you just can’t you have to move on, you have to embrace the change. It is harder though, when you have to leave loved ones behind friends, boyfriends. They just seem the same, they haven’t changed a bit so maybe it’s you that’s changed. But how do you move on, how do you leave everything behind without missing it and having regrets?

Recently, I found out that life can change in an instant. And then you are forced to move on but you catch yourself thinking about the past and about what it used to be,missing it. Yes, change is hard but it is something that everybody goes through at a certain time in their life.

I’ve come to the conclusion that even though sometimes it’s hard change is for the best. After all, there is a greater plan for all of us and we just follow it so who are we to question. We just have to suck it up and move on because there is something better waiting for us just around the corner but if we think about the past too much we might not see it.

So, even though it doesn’t seem that way in the beginning CHANGE is definitely a good thing. Don’t be afraid, just live to the fullest because everything happens for a reason.

That is what movies teach us, yes people are skeptical and they say “But it’s a movie, that doesn’t happen in real life”. But it can, we can embrace the change as awful and painful as it sometimes may be and just move on and think that it is for the best. At least that is what I choose to think, you might not agree with me and that’s fine but you can try it sometime and see if it changes something for you until then live life, love and be as happy as you can be! 🙂

Entertainment or something else entirely?

Have you ever thought about why do we love movies so much?

Is it because they are pure entertainment or is it something else entirely?

For me, personally it is a little bit about both. As you know I am obsessed, I watch movies and TV shows on a daily basis and for me they are entertainment but sometimes they are something else.  It’s like when you read a book you find yourself in the main character wanting to be like them or to live their life. It’s the  same with movies, sometimes you want to be a bad ass ex-cop like Liam Neeson  in ‘Taken’ who practically destroys Paris to find his daughter or a beautiful and mysterious vampire like Ian Somerhalder  in ‘The Vampire Diaries’.

I for one have found myself in the characters numerous times.

I think that is the main reason why people like action movies so much, as do I, of course.

It’s not like my life isn’t amazing but sometimes you want to be another person for just one second at least maybe to escape or maybe,just maybe to experience something a bit different, out of the ordinary. I’ve been a hero, a vampire, a princess, even a convict.

You might think I am mental but I like to think deeper. Movies and books take you to another level, a level you might not reach otherwise. So, there is nothing bad in enjoying a nice movie on a Friday night with a bowl of popcorn and letting your imagination run wild for the night!